Cold Days: A Different Perspective on Tissues, Thermometers and Sneezes

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It all started last Wednesday night at supper. “Aaa….Aaaaa….Aaaaaaaa…Chooo!” marked the announcement of Giant’s first cold of the fall. By Thursday morning, he was miserable.
With one in kindergarten and one in preschool, it was only a matter of time before germs invaded our Little Yellow House, so I took a deep breath and jumped into action armed with the mindset that this time I was going to try something new; I was determined to find something positive about our situation.
Needless to say, this past week turned out very different from what I had originally planned. And that’s okay. If I really think about it, there were unexpected gifts hidden amongst the tissue boxes, the hand sanitizer, the thermometer and the remote control. Giant’s cold provided us the gift of time. In between nose blows and fever checks, Giant had the time to sleep in, which nourished his tired little body. We had the time to watch our favorite kid’s television show and we learned a new word: “Dinosauric” (which means super big…as in dinosaur big). We had the time to discover that Giant likes to do crossword puzzles – just like his grandpa.
If we wanted to read until our eyelids turned inside out, we had the time to do it. We read lots and lots and lots of books and we had the time to dream and build skyscrapers — complete with a visit from Godzilla. We had time to pull out my cookbooks and read how to make gumbo – a direct result of serendipitously stumbling onto a lot of Louisiana-bayou stories. We had the time and space to make a big pile of hard-boiled eggs together and enjoyed eating hot and steamy bowls of chicken corn noodle soup with lots of crackers.
One morning, as they sat together and colored, I overhead Elf say to Giant, “I lub yew” and Giant countered, “I love you, too.” If Giant had been in school, which he normally would have been, this spontaneous and precious moment of recognition between them would have been lost.
Now don’t get me wrong, I’m a firm believer in school — always have been — but I have to admit that I loved spending time with my children last week. Time to enjoy and nurture both of my babies with nothing required on the “to do” list. Time to linger, explore, discover and reconnect.
Now that they’re headed out of here, I can say “thanks” to the germs.
Speaking of which, anybody see the hand sanitizer that was just sitting on my desk a few minutes ago? Helllooooo….anybody?
Best until next time,
Chris
Posted: September 21st, 2009
at 11:34pm by Chris
Tagged with Colds, Parenting, time
Categories: Peaceful Parenting
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